Draw names, share wishlists, skip the duplicate scarf.

mellowish runs your Secret Santa or gift list from one link. Everyone knows who they're buying for, and nobody buys the same thing twice.

Free for groups of up to 25. No app and no password, just a link in your email.

Draw names, or share a wishlist

Every event works one of two ways. You choose when you create it.

Name draw

Secret Santa, office swaps, holiday exchanges

  • Everyone buys for exactly one person, so nobody has to buy for the whole group.
  • The draw is random and secret. You only ever see your own match.
  • Set a budget so gifts feel fair.

Wishlist

Birthdays, weddings, baby showers, housewarmings

  • The guest of honor lists what they'd love, with links and prices.
  • Guests claim a gift so nobody doubles up.
  • The recipient never sees who claimed what.

Three steps, then you're done

The organizer does a minute of setup. Everyone else just clicks a link.

  1. Christmas Secret Santa$50

    Create your event

    Pick the occasion, set a budget and a date. It takes about a minute.

  2. mellowish.app/invites/…Copy link

    Invite your people

    Send invites by email or share a link. Guests join with their email address, no password to remember.

  3. 6 peopleNames drawn

    Draw names and shop

    Run the draw in one tap. Everyone privately sees who they're buying for, plus that person's wishlist.

The awkward parts, handled

No spreadsheets and no group-chat chaos. Just the parts that make gift-giving fun.

  • A fair, secret draw

    Names are drawn at random and nobody gets themselves. Each person sees only their own match.

  • Couples skip each other

    Group people into households so partners never draw each other, or add your own exclusions.

  • Wishlists with claiming

    Add gift ideas with links and prices. Guests claim an item so nobody buys the same thing twice.

  • Surprises stay surprises

    You never see who claimed what on your own wishlist, so the gift is still a surprise.

  • Messages, even anonymous ones

    Post updates to the group, or quietly ask your match about sizes without giving yourself away.

  • Nothing to install

    Works in any browser on phones, tablets and computers. Just open the link.

Free for most groups

Everything you need for a family or friend group is free. Bigger groups can upgrade.

Free

$0forever

  • Up to 25 people per event
  • Unlimited events
  • Name draws with household rules
  • Wishlists with claiming
  • Group and anonymous messages
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Premium

Coming soonfor big groups

  • Everything in Free
  • Unlimited people per event
  • Gift and shipment tracker

Launching soon

Questions people ask

Is it really free?

Yes. Name draws, wishlists, invites and messages are free for events with up to 25 people. Premium adds unlimited participants and a gift tracker.

Do my guests need to sign up?

They just enter their email and tap the sign-in link we send them, or continue with Google. There's no password and nothing to download.

Who can see who drew whom?

Only you can see your own match. Even the organizer doesn't get a list of everyone's pairings.

What's the difference between a name draw and a wishlist?

A name draw (Secret Santa) gives everyone one person to buy for. A wishlist event is for one person or couple, like a birthday or wedding: guests pick gifts from their list instead of drawing names.

Can couples or families avoid drawing each other?

Yes. Put them in the same household and the draw will keep them apart. You can also add one-off exclusions between any two people.

Someone joined late. Do we have to start over?

No. The organizer can invite them and re-run the draw. Everyone sees their new match right away.

Make a wish, keep it mellow.

Your next gift exchange can be set up before your coffee gets cold.

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